I am new at this and not sure if I am doing this right please let me know.
Here is my story: Married 5 years together 8. Have one child who is 16 months old. My H and I have been having difficulties past 6 months or so. He is having trouble over the responsibilty of raising a child. Has not been around much to help, which started a huge lack of communication.
I suspected for a while something was going on with a woman at work. When I confronted my H he basically told me I was crazy and I believed him. On dec. 9th found out he had an affair. My life as I knew it was over. He told me it was a one time deal and he would end it that day. As things went on I found out the day after christmas it had been going on for months and was much deeper and more involved than I could have imagined. H tells me everytime we talk he is going to end it, and he wants his old life back. Trouble is he moved out a month or so ago and has pretty much been living with OW. He shows no improvement on getting things done and ending the A. Tells me he is working on it in his head but no actions have taken place.
The subject "need some hope" by "doing my best" if extremly similar to mine. In my case OW is divorced with a 6 year old child. The post there has helped me alot I feel almost the exact same way. My situation however is not and has not gotten any better. Looking for some advice on how to handle this. It's been almost 2 months with no signs of improvement. I need help I have read the book and I am trying to use the techniques mentioned it's just very hard. I am currently in another state spending time with family.
