Interesting observation esquire! Sounds like her identity was taking care of you. And when you "fixed" yourself, she saw herself as useless. But you can't really talk to her about it unless she sees that herself. And it sounds as if she's already built-up the wall around her heart, and has no desire to break it down and let you in. Both of you are in individual counseling, and you've gone to MC, but you didn't get anywhere. I find it hard to believe that you can be in MC for 1.5 years and not go anywhere - so maybe you should try a different C. Sounds like the other C only let you "vent" and not try to fix anything. If she's not willing to go, then she's officially given up on you and the relationship.
Kellie ------ Me - 27 H - 31 S - born 8/18/2007 Married - 4/24/2005 Together - 7/03/2002
