Hi peace-
I have heard so many times here on the board that a spouse said they were never coming back and did. Mine has not said that (at least not to me)...so watch, my H will be the one doesn't come back. \:\/ Hopefully I didn't jinx myself by saying that. Anyway, I would continue to encourage your D not to talk to your H about the subject...but I am sure it is weighing on her quite heavily. Hopefully she is handling everything as well as possible.

Isn't it weird that they are so secretive. Like we are just looking for any shred of evidence to nail them to the wall...but what I find funny is that if your H were truly done, why would he care if you saw anything in his car?...that is unless he has a dead body in his back seat! I mean really...your kids get in his car...what could be there?

So work seems to be the only safe topic for them right now. Maybe we need to change things up a bit and throw in something about the weather.

Does your book give you any new perspectives on what our spouses might be thinking or feeling? I am always curious.

This is tough but you are tougher! I admire your strength.

<3
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