Try to act upbeat if you can when H is around. I've done the exact same thing with the music and it has surprised H.

I forgave my H for past EA's but right now I'm having a difficult time not having hard feelings towards him. I hope in time I can forgive him again.

Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz