H came and went in about 10 minutes. Oh well. I acted "as if" we were best friends. Asked him if he might want to go to the pool (club type thing) with us on Sunday and for the first time in 2 weeks didn't say "no". Didn't say yes either but right now I'll take a maybe
We had a semi nice conversation earlier. I told him I opened a new bank account in my name and he looked really impressed. He was very interested to look at pictures of my 4 day old nephew too which is great because this is the first time in quite awhile he has shown much interest in my family. H said he'd help me find a job that I really wanted (right now we work together in our own company) Word of advice:NEVER work closely with your spouse!!
Independence is very important for me right now...but like everyone says we need to take baby steps.
Have any of you gone back to your churches even though you thought church wasn't your "thing". I'm thinking of checking out one of the English speaking churches here.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
