I am feeling better today (Hi Sue and thanks..). Still super drained, but hanging in there.
Saw my new counselor today (1st visit was last week). She is really nice. She wants me to sit H down (when I feel he will be receptive) and give him 2 statements. The first one is about the fact that I deserve a 'real' apology for the A, a heartfelt one, and that I need to know (for closure) that he is accepting appropriate blame. He may or may not do this, but I put it out there for him to think about.
The second thing is kind of a truth dart (hi choc!), just a quick frank statement about how this D will devastate the girls, and will change their outlook about men (and their own father) for life. And the outlook change will not be good.
