Maybe she doesn't want your help. All she's known is chaos, and therefore that is what makes her feel OK. All of a sudden she had to be grown up and responsible and that may have freaked her out. Just a thought.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."