Cat my H and I also had a 'written' agreement when we first separated. I signed it, he didn't. He hasn't honoured one bit of it. It wasn't worth the paper it is written on (yes I still have it). Don't waste your time worrying about it. At the moment your H wouldn't know the truth if it came up and bit him in the a**. Let him take care of his own issues b/c that's what they are HIS.

Meanwhile you take care of you and your kids. IF he comes back you will need to be in tip top shape to cope with the further ups and downs that this ride still might have in store for you.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15