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complete forgiveness and termination of the R/M occurs and one starts from the beginning...


FIB,

Both me and my wife agreed, that the only way we managed to start rebuilding our marriage, was because we tore it down to nothing. Emotionally we were at zero.

I want to say something about False Hope, it has been playing on my mind...it seems appropriate here.

False hope is only false if someone is deceiving you. If someone is playing on your hopes with no intentions of fulfilling them.

Otherwise it is just hope. And if that hope doesn't pan out, we incorrectly and bitterly label it false hope...



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet