First of all, my new GF has an intense desire to know and has looked things up about my XW on the internet and through legal channels (she is an atty.) She sometimes has a hard time dealing with the fact that "SHE" used to live here, etc., etc.
MJP
Ugh.
I picked this quote because this is a huge red flag to me, especially in someone you've only been dating for six weeks.
Please step back from this personal situation of yours, free it from the rest of the baggage, and imagine hearing about this from a friend.