LadyDi, thanks for checking....things have calmed down quite a bit. W is out for supper with MIL and I am with D7 (schoolwork, lunch, prepare supper). You see the problem with my W right now is it'S all about her.....not my cup of tea....but like I said before, I owe it to D7 to hang tough. I won't lie to you though, last night's outburst did some damage.
Karen, i may take you up on the DB coach.
jmw, trust me there was absolutely no anger until she started with some pretty hurtful stuff.....not even close to being true. No excuses though I screwed up, i lost my temper.