I agree you're getting some pretty good advice. You've got Bomb, who is a little further on than you. You have Drew who is a lot further on than you. You've got Bill/Bworl who's advice is amazing and is coming from a very good place emotionally and mentally. Me, well I think my advice is good, I mean...what? I'm going to post bad advice knowingly? heh.
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