Over the past couple days I have received "business" emails with respect to separating things. I have responded with a very pleasant tone and attitude, answering her questions, no relationship talk, no pressure.
Today I received a text message asking "Did you change the phone plan?". This was because the provider sent us each a message saying the plan had been changed. I responded by texting "I called to get you on your own plan (this was her request)...all you need to do is call xxx-xxx-xxxx to finalize the transfer..." That was the last contact I had with her.
I just don't understand how within a week she got rid of me and her dogs of 10 years. It is almost like the wedding plans and stress made her snap and she is now ridding her life of all commitment and responsibility.
I know one thing for sure...I was the most stable thing she has ever had in her life and I was trying to help her accomplish her goals to get ahead in life. I am 32 and Amy is 34. She is still bar tending and has significant debt. I was good for her and am confident I would have helped her get her life on track...
Nate
Me: 32 X Fiancee: 34 Bomb: 2/5/08 Separated: 2/6/08