Walk Away Fiancee

[ms ladybug]

I can tell by your post that you're an engineer. It's very detailed and all laid out.

Being "perfect on paper" is probably something very forgein to Amy. It sounds like her life has been quite chaotic and she may not know what to do when there is no drama. Do you think there's another man involved that made her feeling for you change? Just a thought.

I CAN tell you that what she needs right now is SPACE. You are doing the right thing by not contacting her. I DO think you need a apologize for your contribution to the demise of the relationship, validate her feelings, agree with her that it's not going to work, then go dark.

By the book divorce remedy. Although you aren't married yet, it can still help your situation.

Oh, and welcome to DB.