Yes go see a L...find a good one...find one that handled a messy one and got alot for the woman. sounds cruel but yeah.....also one that understands you really dont want this but will give you all your options to stay afloat.
he can start the D...doesnt mean you will end up D'd...we got all the way to court a year into it and we called it off. I think its important if they are so hep on it that they do all the work. HA! My L kept H's so busy...his was 3x what mine was!
they all have OW, par for the course.....it still stinks and shakes us to the core and we hate them! But getting rid of them does not a fixed H make.....its soooo much more complicated than that
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
