This is what I posted on gforce's thread. The first part is exactly what I would tell you also. Here it goes :
"The other guy has the problem now. You turned it around!! I know it must be very hard to accept her contacting him, but you need to let her finish up business with him. And while she does that, I would suggest to show her daily -you know the way- that nobody can compare to you. And I mean that. NOBODY as far as she is concerned. Don't underestimate what you've managed so far. "
