Nor do I think you should be doing "last resort/going dark".
"Not clinging/pursuing": yes
"Giving her space": yes
"Deliberately Avoiding her and not talking to her at all": no
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I am not going dark just detaching, giving lots of space and I am not avoiding her at all, we all have dinner together every night. I have been shocking the sh** out of her by doing the dishes and helping with landry. She also helped me with my bed sheeting this morn.
