One other thing. I'm wondering why your lawyer thinks you won't get anything. And I don't know about your state, but in mine proving adultery only gets you divorced faster, it has NO effect on finances or custody issues.
If you don't like what you're hearing or think it's not right, by all means get a second opinion.
Protecting yourself does NOT mean you want to be divorced.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
