Well, I confronted her with what I know...

[Sugar and Spice]

My H actually had the nerve to start a rant last night about me snooping through "his" cell phone bill online. He was mad and made a reference to me going through it and calling unfamiliar numbers (I only called 1),but what gall! He told me he was going to change his password and that I didn't need to be checking up on him and I just asked him that at this point what would that do? I already know about the OW and the A, so kinda like closing the cell door after the inmates have escaped. Whats left to hide?

I have made a vow to stop snooping for the time being as it doesn't hurt anyone but me because he has yet to end the A, but I will start it back up in a heartbeat if I need to. Keep to your time limit. My best advice to get through the next week is keep calm, cool and detached. Don't let her get a rise out of you and stick to your guns.

Hang in there!