You Lawyer told you to squirrel away money. That's coming from a legal source, I don't think I am going to suggest going against advice from your lawyer unless it was your Lawyer pushing you to D. If you're having problems and think this is dishonest...well it might be, however let me use your own words to strenghten your resolve:
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Our S's and I did without him to further his career and OW gets the rewards! SKANK!! IT'S NOT FAIR!! H is even fixing up the place she lives (which I believe belongs to her XH) with our money!!
Do what your lawyer says. DB is for yourself and to save your marriage, but not at the cost of protecting yourself either.
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