It makes no sense that they're the ones committing ADULTERY yet they cry FOUL PLAY cause we snoop? Excuse me but if we ever make it to the pearly gates at the same time, I don't think that's going to be weighing on my conscious! "I'm sorry St. Pete, but I snooped on my H while he was sleeping with another woman, can I still get into heaven?" Compared to adultery????
Snooping is a a way of protecting ourselves.
Beware, the need/desire to snoop may come back to you if you suspect that she is meeting/talking to OW and trying to hide it. They'll do anything, say anything to cover it up. Their lies are as smooth as butter ... and you'll want to know.
