I saw your post on fb2's thread. It is very quiet over here, I agree. But I guess most of you lucky guys have a lot of things to keep you busy (your Ss for one!!), so look at the bright side of it. Newcommers forum is very crowed, a lot of drama going on. Many new people are joinning daily (unfortunately).
I have a gut feeling you need to go with flow for once more. I've read somewhere (was it Michelle?) that you shouldn't try very hard. Yes it has Michelle!! Think of the butterfly effect. Do little things on a daily basis that will keep the positive coming.It must be hard to be hungry, have a full plate in front you that smells terrific and not be allowed to fully enjoy it YET. But wait, think of where we all met you... and where you are now.This is a situation you are in charge now. You have the resources, the strength and the confidence to handle it. Your wife needs to slowly get the steps right, you are leading. Just watch out not to step on her toes too much... xxxxx (always amazed by your attitude) Kalni