not try to fill the gaps while H was getting ready to talk.
What does that mean.just curious..Thanks
Normally H has long pauses while he prepares his words. I know this. I have to slow down enough and let him prepare his response and sit thru the silence, awkward or not. There is also the many times that H just clams up and won't talk and there is no crowbar big enough to change that!
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