Hi fb2, I wasn't sure what's going on, what the papers meant. I can't validate or agree or urge or suggest you to do anything than what you really want but most importantly can. As Michelle says, it's all very personal when you you get to that point. BUT, if in your heart you are sensing there might me something different going on, that there could be a change of heart of any kind that might mean you have a very very slight chance, ESPECIALLY since you have tried so hard for so long, maybe you should back off emotionally and try to handle the legal staff keeping in the back of your mind your "scanners" on sensitive mode to see her reactions. In your shoes (getting there soon) I wouldn't sign anything before a final talk with her. But that is just me talking...
