Ok H is really taking this whole 'no communication' issue a bit too far now.

My landline just rang. I answered it. I have sort of been expecting him to ring (don't know why) so for days I have been answering it in the most upbeat voice I can muster. The person on the other end said nothing and put the phone down.

I have the facility on my phone to try to ascertain who just phoned. Yes it was H. His mobile number. I'm sure it can't have been that his keypad wasn't locked and therefore as my name begins with A his phone has rung me by itself b/c the way the phone was put down was too deliberate.

There is only S15 in so I just asked him if he has been trying to contact his dad. He said no. I told him what just happened and said if he wanted to ring back to see who it was that he wanted that was fine.

Could this be withdrawal I ask myself?????????? Geesh I hope so it's about time he moved in his tunnel Not gonna hold my breath though otherwise I will look like this:

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15