Sue,
I heard this song this morning and thought about you, and that you said you were trying to come up with a new title for your thread. I hadn't heard this song in awhile, but certainly the lyrics hit home in a new way. I know many here can relate!

Pat Benatar: Treat Me Right

You want me to leave, you want me to stay
You ask me to come back, you turn and walk away
You wanna be lovers, and you wanna be friends
I'm losing my patience, you're nearing the end
One of these days you're gonna reach out and find
The one that you count on has left you behind
Don't want to be no martyr, with no one, no say
Oh my, my baby, before it's too late

Treat me right
Treat me right
Open your eyes, maybe you'll see the light...

Joie