It is so true that the WAS will blame everything on the LBS. My H was angry that the OW's H called me to talk to me about their ongoing affair. I told my H at least all I did was talk to the OW's H and not sleep with him! My H's reply was "Well, two wrongs don't make a right." Unbelievable, huh?
It's sad that they compare our snooping to their infidelity and think it is right along the same lines as the betrayal they inflicted on us!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon