Do you and your W typically do something? If so, then maybe scale back what you would normally do, but still do something.
My W and I typically haven't done anything in the past. Maybe go out to dinner or something, so I don't think that we're going to do anything. At least I don't have anything planned, so I'll have some egg on my face if she does decide to do something for me. Such is life though.
It's a tough decision. Let us know what you figure out...
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008