Refuse To Lose, Part II

[AliSuddenly]

RTL..how would you normally react? (I know this isnt normal!). Me and my BF had an urgent mortgage issue.. in the past I always did all the finances..so I have let him deal with it. So far, a month has gone by and he still hasnt done it. Its costing us £400 extra a month. I left the responsibility for it with him, as its a 180 for me, and for him. Its annoying its costing us money because hes being a bit slow, but it would be worth it if it makes him feel more confident about dealing with me.

So my advise would be..what would she expect you to react like in the face of her actions? Do the opposite, and do it with calmness and kindness? If there are items that need paying then phone them, email your W just letting her know what needs paying and asking her how she'd like to arrange payment for them? Unless their expenses on your house? My BF never mentioned the rent from the day he moved out, or bills. It sucks I know, but money isnt important?

Ali