Karen, so glad to hear you are having a great time with the plays!

Though it may feel like it, I really don't think your H is doing anything to deliberately drive you crazy. I'm sure he still cares, quite a bit, for you.

There is always hope. Nothing is ever hopeless, even when it really feels like it.

Continue with GAL and focus on yourself. When H does something nice, show him your appreciation and thank him without going overboard. Just follow his lead but don't tail him, kwim?

And don't worry about him not working on the changes/repairs to the house. Could be a good thing, maybe.

You're doing great. Keep it up.

Last edited by Uncertainty; 02/13/08 06:20 PM.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell