W got aggressive w/ me and closed out our joint checking account. We have some items pending and I'm not able to balance the checkbook without access to the account. I'm not sure how that will play out, but if it results in late fees and penalties, not only will my credit score take a hit, but hers will as well. I'm pretty sure she's not thinking about that one.
She also cancelled our credit card, but left me with it as my liability. I'm not real pleased about this one as we're both at fault here. Oh, well.
Today I really need to be patient and strong. I'm focusing on being compassionate of her actions instead of being angry. I'm sad that she is choosing to be so aggressive at this stage.
Is this normal behavior ar this stage? What is the best thing for me to do to keep positive and keep DBing?
I still want this to work, but I have to admit I'm rather discouraged by today's events.
