I hope that you are never called upon to look a serious illness in the face but if you are I hope you will be able to do it with half the grace, strength, humor and kindness to others that IC has shown. You have no right to make any pronouncements on his character. The only person who has that right is MissIC, and if she choses to give him a second chance that is her call and her call alone. I personally think they are both great people and hope for a bright future for both of them.
