I am so glad you got out and GAL. Whether your H returns to the M or not, you will be fine. My H rushed through the D as fast as he could, but yet was still seeing me all the time. Your H may see losing steam in the D as a sign of weakness. Who knows.
Hang in there.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!