MORE SNOW! I can't believe how much snow we have...I am so sick of shovelling! The snowbanks are actually taller than I am...and I'm tall!
Anyway, I have to fill out my financial statements today. H gave me back the forms (he took them to photocopy them) and he said that his are filled out and with his lawyer. He said that his lawyer is drawing up a letter to give to my lawyer so they can figure it out. This is crazy. It's moving right along.
These things along with the fact that there seems to be NO connection whatsover with my H is really discouraging. Is he REALLY over me? Is it all REALLY gone and he wants to completely move on? I have no little signs to keep me believing there is hope, with the exception of the strong feeling in my heart.
I keep thinking about the part in DR where Michele talks about the WAS's whose mind is just made up and there is nothing any DB'ing can do to save it. I KNOW that the DB'ing is for me and I have to do it regardless. But I can't help but wonder if H is really in some kind of life crisis (all signs point to yes) or if he is just really wanting to move on with on with a different life and that is why he is moving so fast. I keep believing that OW R is doomed...but right now that does not seem to be the case. Don't believe 100% of what they say and only 50% of what you see....right? I'm teetering on that line between believing it's over, really really over and seeing this all as part of the whole process that there is still a chance. SG...if you're stopping by at all....I'd love some advice! Can't wait to see the links for the "11th hour" thread!! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
