Wife's MLC???

[bombardier50]

Ha! Drew...love that line the counselor gave you. Perfect. Glad also to hear that there are glimmers of hope. I admire you man...you've always had a great attitude about this about this hell we're in and you inspired me.

Funny thing...I was at a conference all week and...I didn't really miss my W, and I didn't cry the whole time I was there. And that's not all. For the first time in years, I noticed that women were hitting on me. Talk about a confidence booster.

Fyre, my point is that like you, for a long time I wallowed in the darkness of this. I was crying in my soup. Then one of the guardian angels on this board, Saffie, gave me a real azz-kicking that got me out of my funk. Her message was this:

1) You are a good man. If you weren't, you wouldn't be trying to save your marriage.
2) Because you are a good man, your wife is lucky to have you.
3) And because you are a good man, if your wife decides she doesn't want you, there are plenty of women out there who will scoop you up.

Keep that in mind. And keep doing that Zen thing.

Bomb