Thanks for the advice, I guess apologizing is probably the best thing to do. I know I keep going over all of these things in my head that shake her out of this, but it won't work I know that. I talked with her last night and all she did was blame me, the om's wife and everyone else..
I think I am going to go black (I think that's what you call no contact) for awhile, mostly for my own sanity...
