Hey B, Have you reread DR? The parts about asking for what YOU want? I just don't want you to get so focused on validating her that you lose sight of your own needs. You also need to share with her what is going to make YOU happy in all of this. Maybe not right away...but just something to think about. Looks like Bob was right, every little thing, IS gonna be alright! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
