cemar - I am not a feminist but I very well could be if you choose to dissect my life. Women's lib has NOTHING to do with libido. I know women that are SAHW with and w/out kids with the same problem. As we age, our hormones change. Outside stress affects libido. Relationship issues affect it. It is challenging to keep love alive and probably something that should be worked at every day. Unfortunately, that often isn't realistic in today's world. It isn't about women's lib.