respond or stay still?

[heartbreak2]

Well yesterday my L left a vm on my cell.
H supposedly got the paperwork we needed to his L and
she mailed it to mine....

now talk about avoiding me and costing himself more money..
he is so dense...

so now I have to deal with the L today and I am in a state of
just plain tired.
it was a yr ago he wanted to come back and sent the most beautiful flowers he had ever given me for vday.
but did not sign the card.... guess he didn't want proof...

I have a dr's appt tomorrow it has been 5 wks now since I had a sinus infec. and I have a cough that won't go away and I get short of breath easily and wheeze. I do not have asthma but sure is starting to feel like I might have it now.

just one more thing to deal with.

I am going to lunch with friends today and it is a rainy nasty day so hopefully that will make things better for a while.

too many things to decide for the settlement my mind is boggled with #'s and time frames and it is starting to run together.

the L's only tell you so much and there is a lot out there that they don't tell you.