Kimmie,

Are you seeing / have you seen an L?

If you retain a L, any good one will understand your needs and wishes and act accordingly. If you want to stall or delay the D, then your L should be able to come up with all sorts of ways to drag this out. You just have to let the L know what your objectives are.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.