Hi purr, just read your thread and I am very impressed by the way you handled yourself at MC and at dinner!! Your situation sounds very hopeful and I think giving your wife the time she needs is going to be very beneficial in the long run.
I think her doing the initiating with MC and outings and more positive than you can see being in the middle of this MLC mess!
The reason I wanted to write is to lend my support to you and let you know I consider myself a success story. My H and I are together again and our M is stronger than ever! Read my threads to see the progression of crap I went through...In the end I DB'd to the max, changed me for the better and have realized what my H needs from me and what I need from me.
Stay strong and continue to do things for you! I understand how hard GALing is...I tried to do it with two young children at home and there were many times I couldn't! Read everything you can get your hands on, this helped me tremendously to stay focused.
You will see if you read my history that I was on the brink of D...went to court and everything. Your situation is not even close to that so that is a positive you can be thankful for!
