I don't know if you are still out there, but I think I could use some advice from you. I've been following your situation since December as a 'lurker' and after reading your history, I think we're a lot a alike personality wise.
Sorry to hear about your character flaws.
Originally Posted By: Noles Fan
I'm 33, my wife is 31. We have been married for 8 years. We have a 4 year old son. Our marriage has been good and I really don't have any complaints other than sex is not as often as I would like. It could be better, but it's often enough and good enough that I would not consider myself starved.
I'm not justifying an affair, but if things are so good then why?
Originally Posted By: Noles Fan
My wife does not know and I have been debating on telling her or not. I admire you for bringing your ONS out to Miss IC in order for your marriage to grow, even if it did risk you losing her. I kind of have the same feeling, I'm just not sure I have the ballz to pull it off like you have. I would appreciate any advice you can lend.
Let me clear something up for ya...I didn't "pull" anything off, I was given the gift of a second chance. I'm sure the board will give you plenty of advice on whether or not to tell your wife...I'm not going to. If you do decide to tell her and IF you are given the gift of a second chance and want advice on how to respect that gift then look me up.
