Thanks fb2, it's really nice to hear someone give some positive feedback. And you are right I need to be very patient. Extremely difficult.
Odd mood this morning, I think it is in part because of me having a hard time measuring the success of my goals because my WAW is giving me different reactions to identical situations. Such as pickup 5D on Mondays. Last Monday very positive and sharing work stress and how long she was going to be, my offer to do 5D hw, dinner, get ready for bed then bring to her. This Monday reaction of I am here to get her and she is not here. Just odd.
Or, last night WAW calls asking when I was going to bring her 5D after dance class. It has been the same time for the last 5 weeks. I just said she will be done in about 5 minutes. But it is difficult to measure. Unless this is a very small positive of wanting to talk to me. She did go to town between this call and my dropoff of 5D but never mentioned it until I dropped off. Of course, I left promptly, told her about 5D medicine, clothes for tomorrow and gave her another schedule and left...no sense in talking about that schedule or anything potentially negative.
Read more of Hope for the separated...good book...
