Ow is a like an addiction

[Starshyne]

All this is very interesting. After my H met the OW, he took up smoking. We were never smokers before and actually hated the smell. So for the past 2-3 months he has been smoking an insane amount of cigerettes. Since he has been back home, he has decided on his own (I never said a word about it) to quit. He says that it has been difficult because he wants to smoke, but he hasn't picked one up in 5 days. Then he tells me that he found a couple in his car and instead of smoking the last ones, he stomped on them. What a visual image! If only he would "stomp" on the addiction of the OW!

Actually there was a good sign last night. He didn't sleep with his phone near the bed and I actually didn't even see his cell phone at all last night (meaning he must have kept it in his brief case like I used to).

Sara