PH,

Thank you. As I know everyone can relate to the fact that at times the stress of the sitch and our spouse's behavior can be overwhelming. At times I feel as if I am on the edge ready to jump. Jump right out of this sitch. The advice here helps to bring me down.

Your right. I don't want to risk him not attending the intensive and I don't want to give him a reason to resist Michele's advice once he is there. We were able to talk calmly later last night. I need to stop trying to take control of a sitch that is out of my control at the moment. That would be something different for me and after all I am trying to make positive and lasting changes. Old habits die hard.


Posts
Role Reversal(original)
WAW now LBS part I & II
WAW now LBS part III(current)
T: 9 yrs
M: 8 yrs
WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07
LBS: Sep 07-pres.