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[BEAUTYandWAH]

Journaling....
My H and I had a fight over stupid things and he told me that he MAY have a plan to go see OW1 next month. Then, it clicked my mind that he is planning to go see her with my D7's college fund.

So, I decided to e-mail my in-laws.. regarding his trip plan and warn them. I told them that I am worried how my H will spend the money on trip to see OW, paying off his debts, and buying a car. I also told them I am no longer in the position to tell my H my opinion on how he can spend the money and he will not listen to me.

They told my H that they need to talk to him the night and they had a family meeting regarding how he can spend the money. I am glad they had the talk and they were clear what their purpose of the financial support, EDUCATION ONLY. They did not mention my name in the meeting and my H has no clue that I was the informer LOL.

I really hope my D7's money will be used in proper manner (yea... right) But I will keep monitoring his behaviour.

I think I did the right thing to stop my H from using money on OW or other stupid things.

Today, my H gave me a check for his rent I paid this month. It was from his parents... I do not want money from his parents anymore. I just want my H to struggle and make some money with his effort but I guess his parents will just help him no matter what.. My H will never be grown up and be financially efficient.. Sad sad sad

Beauty