She's gone...I'm devastated, but hopeful - Part 2

[minkerman]

Thanks for the advice, LN, I appreciate it a lot.

Today she was home sick with a cold, so I called her to ask how she was feeling. During the conversation, she asked "so what is going to be different this time after we get back together?" She kind of took me aback with that one!

So I went over the changes we have both made, how we are both so much better communicators than we were before, how we are obviously physically attracted to each other, and how we now understand why we have made the mistakes we have made. She agreed that those were all pretty positive changes, she was just wondering. Hmmm.

But then a major (to me) positive happened. I was driving home from work, and she called me. Out of the blue. No reason for the call, other than to just chat. So we kept it light, lots of laughter, and she said to enjoy my yoga class.

Felt pretty good after that.

Upon reflection, I guess it's good that she's asking questions...she wants to be sure as to what she's coming back to...and so do I! She is testing the waters, and although it makes me nervous, I think I get it.

Just a little dip on the rollercoaster, LN!

I am so incredibly committed to doing what I need to do, and should have always been doing, to make my marriage work. Once we reunite, I expect no less from her.

So, we were going to go to a hockey game on valentine's day. Now that she isn't feeling so good, I said I would come to her place and cook her a wonderful dinner. She said "dinner sounds nice". So we shall see. Wish Minkerman luck!!!