No More Mister Nice Guy is a good book. There are three books that can help men, they are NMMNG, "The Way of the Superior Man", and "Wild at Heart" for the religious. All of these books are trying to get the man to have a purpose or goal in his life that is NOT his wife. This is to take the pressure off the women, to detach the big hose that is sucking her dry. Supposedly, women are attracted to men that DON"T need them. The theory is that by pursuing their own goals, this will take the pressure off the woman and she will then regain her attraction to him. However, the first two books will tell you that once you are the Integrated Male or Superior Man, if the wife does NOT increase her desire for you, then you have chosen poorly, and it would be best for BOTH of you to END your relationship. These books make it clear that men should NOT settle for crap in their relationships, and that thier wives are essentially disposable. Wild at Heart has many similar idea's, but the main difference is that it says that the man should keep trying to effect change in his wife FOREVER if necessary, it does NOT recommend divorce for ANY reason.
All are good books.
One thing about these books is that they may HELP make the man more attractive to the women, but the women STILL must make massive changes in herself, and she still must find a way to regain her sex drive, and she will have to do this basically on her own.
