I have the intensive with Michele in less than three weeks, but I am afraid I might just flip out on him before them. I am simply not accustomed to be disrespected and taking it. I think he is particulary aggitated because his sister, and on Wed. his mom, will be visiting for two weeks. If I come around his lies about our sitch will fall apart.
DO you think your H is going through some kind of crisis? If he is, his actions are not going to make much sense at times. Keep up the DBing for your own well-being, at least, if not for the R. I hope you are able to get through the intensive with your H, especially if you've already paid for it and if it's non-refundable. I am sure talking with Michele will be very helpful. If I were you, I would rock the boat as little as possible, with your H, to maiximize the chances of him attending the intensive.