Thanks for the kudos. I feel really good about it.
W hasn't responded to me, but since I had to make a "legal-sounding" reply to her request for items, I decided to tag on the end of the e-mail information about me taking D for both Thursday and Friday.
This way if we don't talk on the phone about it, I have proof that I accepted her offer to have me w/ my D for these two days.
I feel so much better about not going out. I really do. I felt so good that I actually tried to call the W immediately and when I got her vm, I sent a text saying, "if you're up, call if you can."
I want her to hear me say it, but I won't be over-eager here. I've stated that I will be with D on Thurs. and Fri. and I can wait until I see W face to face or talk w/ her to tell her my reasoning.
I will not be contacting her anymore tonight. If I don't hear from her, I'll wait until tomorrow evening when we'll have to talk to arrange a pickup.
I'm even going to suggest dropping D off w/ her grandparents during the day on Friday so she can hang out w/ them and then get her after school.
I like the decision I've made. I have to do it if my goal is to bust my divorce. Once I thought about it, it was a no brainer.
